I’ve been wondering just how to “do” Christmas this year with three newly adopted children from Ethiopia. I would really like to change our “normal” Christmas to focus more on Christ and less on presents. I have been wanting to toss up the question: How does your family celebrate Christmas? How do other large families celebrate Christmas?
This is what you all had to say (full answers can be found in this post):
Rebecca said…I love the book, “The ADVENTure of Christmas” by Lisa Whelchel. Lots of great ideas on how to bring CHRIST back into CHRISTmas.
We are also making a change this year in our holiday traditions. First, the kids will only be getting ONE present and a few goodies in their stockings. Another thing we have done is take all the Santa related Christmas decorations out of our home so that we can focus on the REAL reason for the season. NOT saying santa is bad, we just don’t want TOO much santa and not enough CHRIST.[This post contains Amazon Affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.]
Jillian and Crew said…
We celebrate our Christian heritage with my best friend who is Jewish on Hannakuh to start with…then we attend several events such as Living Christmas Trees and Live Nativities. ..We don’t “do” Santa. My kids know his name/image and history and that some people like to pretend he is real. Santa in our house is known as a figure that represents giving and remembering to care for others.
We have a birthday party for Jesus on Christmas Eve…We read the Bible and talk about the story of His birth and why it is important…We also pick a charity each year and ask for donations to be made there in honor of us instead of gifts for us..some people will do that and some just need to give gifts…I guess it is their love language 🙂
Elizabeth said……One thing we are going to do this year is get an advent wreath and do a devotion every Sunday evening. I may get crazy and try to do something every evening, but we’ll see. I’m going to commit to starting small – succcess at an level is important at this point!:)……Each child gets something that represents Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh. Gold is something they want, Frankincense is something they need, and Myrrh is an experience. Santa brings something as well.…we are definitely cutting back more and more every year, and the kids didn’t even notice last year.Kirstine said……My best idea for Christmas is to have a birthday morning for Jesus like you would do any other birthday in the family. Decorated table – a plate for him, singing – what ever you would do for a person in the household on their birthday. It reminds us that Jesus is alive and real and we celebrate Christmas because he was born. Anonymous said……Each of us draws a name on thanksgiving. We make or give away something we have that we know would touch the other person, the kids have come up with, stories, favorite toys, making cookies for each other,etc. we open them on Christmas eve after reading the Christmas story… last year we were very financially strapped and the kids all wanted to do things for families who had touched us so, we made cinnamon rolls together and delivered them… One other thing we did is we made a dessert from different countries to count down to God’s birth. We then prayed for all the children that needed adopted.
Last year, we purchased a dairy animal from Samaritan’s Purse for each of the grown children. This year, we will purchase one as a family to show our children that God tells us to take care of others, even if we don’t know them. I’ve let the older ones (10 and 6) look through the SP catalog as a visual reminder of how we can help others and keep the focus on Christ and not on ourselves.
Kendra the Bow Lady said…
…We also hold our own Advent celebrations with a few close family and friends every Sunday during December…it’s comprised of a reading, Advent candles, Scripture passages/verses, prayer, and always O Come Emmanuel…refreshments/fellowship afterward…… Birthdays at our house are when presents can be a little more emphasized, because that’s a day to celebrate that child. Right now we’re celebrating CHRIST and we don’t want our children to think it’s about them! Our kids are young so they don’t quite understand why they get presents…we explain it in toddler language like this: “Mommy and Daddy are so happy about Jesus and all that he has given us, so we are happy to give you a special gift,” or something to that effect. Our kids understand Christmas as a “party about Jesus!”…
Last year I wrote several posts about Christmas including Advent, Our Favorite Christmas Traditions, and Our Christmas Day which was a comedy of errors. Since I just got back from Seattle last night, I am not going to add a thing to your good words! You all have done a wonderful job writing this post for me and I thank you.
Next week’s Tuesday Topic will be up tonight. Thank you for your great questions and answers.
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