Need ideas for Christmas gifts? In my nearly 24 years of mothering, I’ve seen many toys come and go. As Christmas approaches, I hope I can offer some helpful suggestions. Some toys with longevity are expensive, while others cost nearly nothing or can easily be found at thrift stores and yard sales. You might want to put these on your “watch list.”
Here we go!
1. Educational Toys
I have to confess, I love these sorts of toys because they teach while allowing for creative fun. Here are a few of our long time favorites:
Pattern Blocks (I have two large bins)
Peg Board (The Lauri one has been our favorite for years and years.)
Beads and Strings (Love them)
Geo Board (Over time we’ve lost most of our rubberbands, and I’ve had a hard time finding colorful ones. I finally resorted to ordering them on Amazon – crazy. A crafty person could make one of these and they really are great.)
2. Leapfrog Toys
LeapFrog Word Whammer
Also educational, but in a different category are the LeapFrog products — love them. This Fridge Words Magnetic Word Builder,or “Word Whammer” as we call it, is a fantastic learning toy. Little Man got this for Christmas last year and it is still played with nearly every day. I’ve been strict about keeping all of the letters on the refrigerator and I don’t think we’ve lost any. The beauty of this toy is that it makes it easy for children to understand the concept of blending letter sounds.
The toy sounds out the letters and if they’ve built a word, it reads it to them. All of the vowels are red, and they know (from the Leap Frog DVD’s) that the vowels are the “sticky letters” that hold the words together. With a vowel in the middle, they can make lots of fun words. Little Man especially likes to spell Mom and Dad, which we like too. There is also a button that plays the “ABC Song” which Little Man plays a bit too often.
I know these aren’t toys, but I have to put in a plug for these great DVD’s. Eby and Little Man learned all of their letter sounds with no effort, how to blend sounds, and even “silent e”, which is making teaching them to read a breeze.
3. Riding Toys
Noah got a Kiddie Car from Community Playthings for his second birthday — he is now 19. That toy is still played with nearly every day and from the time he came home from Ethiopia, Eby claimed it. When Little Man turned two, we bought one for him. Sunshine, Eby, and Little Man ride these around the house, driving me slightly nuts, but, they have been great purchases.
We also had a very sweet Radio Flyer scooter that Sweet Pea got for her first birthday. It had a sad accident when it was left in the driveway just a couple of years ago, but gave my kids many hours of happy riding.
Two years ago we gave Eby a Mighty Trike to ride on our gravel driveway. He wasn’t ready to ride a bike, but the tires on most trikes didn’t work well on the gravel. This trike has been a fantastic purchase, although the price was a bit much to bear. Fortunately we had gift money from grandparents, so that eased the pain. It is larger than most trikes, so Eby (5) and Little Man (4) will still use it for a long time.
All three of these are rather expensive, but they will last for many years, and through many children. They would be great suggestions for grandparents!
We have a big bin of wooden blocks that get played with regularly. Last Thursday the blocks formed a fence to keep the wild lion (Little Man) from escaping the zoo. The kids also love to build big towers and make roads.
They also enjoy our set of cardboard bricks that we have had for many, many years. They are light, inexpensive, surprisingly sturdy, and great for building walls to crash down with cars.
We have a sweet little village like this as well. I tend to save it for Quiet Hour when the pieces won’t get scattered.
We have had our train set since we lived in Ithaca, New York, which would mean about twenty years. Little Man and Eby love it. I keep it out for awhile, and then store it away, often trading it with the big bin of blocks. Even college kids have been known to come over and build a train. You can start small with enough track to make a circle or figure eight and add to it over the years.
All of my children have loved Playdough; just yesterday I got out out large bin of Playdough toys for Eby and Little Man. Kids will be happy with a small rolling pin and cookie cutters or something more elaborate. You can’t go wrong with the basic Fun Factory which is inexpensive and fun. My kids’ current favorites are the ice cream shoppe and a clown that grows “hair.’ In the summer, Playdough is an outside activity, but during cooler weather I do my best to have a good attitude about the mess and remember that most of it can be swept up when they are done.
7. Dress Up Clothes
Timeless, inexpensive, and hours of fun, kids love dress up clothes. Nearly every day at my home, somebody is an Indian, a princess, or an animal. Most of the dress ups we have were found at yard sales, thrift stores, or they were passed to us. When the girls were younger I often had to replace the all important dress up shoes, now their dress ups are more elaborate and often involve performances.
9. Building Toys (Duplos, Legos, K’nex, Lincoln Logs)
We have two large bins of Duplos that have been played with for twenty years – I’m not kidding. Eby is just beginning to move on to Legos, but the Duplos still get used regularly. Last week I dug out my older boys’ set of K’nex and Sunshine has gone completely nuts over them. She has been building creations daily, and particularly loves following the diagrams to create cars, etc.
10. Castles, Doll Houses, and Imaginative Play
My nephews who are now 21 and 19, passed their Fisher Price Castle and Pirate Ship to my kids many years ago. Eby and Little Man call them their “bad guys” and love playing with them. If I were to purchase a set today, I would probably go with something like this,although if you can find a used castle, my guys love theirs.
I didn’t originally list Playmobil because we have never owned it, but a friend commented that it is their favorite toy and my kids love to play Playmobil when they go to friends’ houses. There are lots of great castles and other sets to check out.
We also have a dollhouse that originally belonged to my niece and has given my kids hours of fun play.
With six daughters, you can imagine that we have had many dolls in our home. We love baby dolls and big girl, American Girl dolls. Dimples and Sunshine still love their Fisher Price Little Mommy dolls which we have with both light skin and brown skin. They are relatively inexpensive and quite sweet. The dolls from Melissa and Doug are similar.
12. Craft Supplies
My younger set will spend hours playing with paper, glue, paints (they love the little inexpensive watercolor sets), markers, crayons, scissors, glue sticks, and tape. Extra exciting items are fuzzy pompoms, foam stickers, pipe cleaners, glitter glue, and googly eyes with adhesive backs. This can also get super messy, but I give them a large plastic bowl for their scraps which helps with cleaning up. Rubber stamps are also a big hit.
13. Art Supplies
Good art supplies are more expensive than craft supplies, but they often last a long time. We still have a large set of Prismacolor pencils that belonged to Mimi years ago. We love our art sketchbooks and recently began experimenting with watercolor pencils in our nature journals.
14. Toy Kitchen and Food
Our kids love having a toy kitchen; the one we have was passed to us by friends. We have a crazy collection of toy food and dishes ranging from old Fisher Price tea sets to Melissa and Doug wood food that cuts apart with a wooden knife (the pieces are held together with velcro). Since Little Man doesn’t read, I can tell you that I ordered the Birthday Cake set for him for Christmas. He loves making cakes for us with our Lauri pegboard and Duplos, so I’m pretty sure he’ll love this.
15. Outdoor Toys
We love having a trampoline and have not had a single broken bone in ten years. Eby and Little Man spend hours jumping and playing games with balls. They have fun with their hand-me-down Little Tykes basketball hoop and other sports toys. We also have a sandbox filled with buckets and old Tonka trucks, as well as a playset. Right now we are doing a lot of sledding!
16. Wii and Wii Fit
[I borrowed this review from a post I wrote last year, Six Weeks Later.]
Another favorite gift that has seen daily use is Wii Fit Plus. After refusing to have video games for years, we were persuaded to get a Wii last Christmas (2008) with gift money from the grandparents. Because it can be used interactively, and you actually use your body to play many of the games, we decided this would be a good fit for us – especially during our long, cold winters. Overall, we have been happy with that decision. The kids lobbied hard for Wii Fit and this year we used grandparent gift money to get it.
Most of the kids have set up an account and are playing games to increase their balance, agility, etc. Russ and I had a hilarious time doing the Obstacle Course. I love the premise that exercise is fun; I want my children to love moving their bodies and breaking out in a sweat. I was a completely non-athletic, slightly overweight child, but I got hooked on running in college and haven’t stopped yet. So far the Obstacle Course is my favorite game, although I have yet to make it to the advanced level. I’m terrible at Skateboarding – Boo tried to teach me how to do it, but I think it is going to take practice.
17. Marble Runs
We got our Marble Run as a hand-me-down many, many years ago and the kids still love it. Ours is from Discovery Toys and looks similar to this.
18. Lite Brite
I have great memories of playing Lite Brite with my sister, Laura. We would hide away in our room for hours making pictures and then displaying them for our parents. Our Lite Brite has been tucked away for a few years, but I’m planning to get it out and see if my younger children enjoy it.
There are ten young people in my kitchen right now, so I just took a poll of their favorite games. These are the ones they spontaneously offered:
Candyland, Trouble, Guess Who?, Clue, Rat-a-Tat Cat, Uno, Dutch Blitz, The Amazing Labryinth, Connect 4, Life, Stratego, Settlers of Catan, Imaginiff ,Blokus, and Apples to Apples.
20. Cars and Trucks
This list would be incomplete without mentioning cars and trucks of all kinds. My older boys enjoyed playing with Hotwheels cars and track; Eby and Little Man have not discovered these yet, but I think they are just about ready. They also like big trucks, particularly the fire engine that makes lots of noise.
21. What would you put here?
Every family is different and we would love to hear what toys your children enjoy. Give us suggestions and fresh ideas!
Have a great start to your week. Let’s get our Christmas shopping done so we can focus our hearts and minds on our families and the coming of Christ. And for those of you who are done — I wish I could say the same!