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One Thankful Mom - Lisa Qualls

Honest reflections on family, adoption, foster care, and faith.

Talking with Annarose about Siblings

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If your family is a blend of kids by birth and adoption/foster care, or if you had an established family created by adoption and then added new children from “hard places,” don’t miss this interview with my daughter, Annarose.

How do siblings in the family feel, and what do they experience, when you add children to the family through adoption or foster care? What if the new children come with lots of challenges?

Annarose, the middle child of eleven, talks about the challenges and blessings of being a sister to kids through adoption.

I hope you enjoy Episode #5 Giving Voice to Siblings.

If you’d like to listen on your phone but don’t know how, follow these simple instructions. I’m hooked on podcasts and listen to them when I’m driving, walking, cooking, cleaning – anytime I can pop an earbud in without ignoring the people around me.

I realize I haven’t been posting the episodes here on One Thankful Mom. I’m not sure how I missed the obvious – I’ll be sure to do so in the future.

Have a courageous day,

Lisa

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  • One of our sweetest surprises ever! Zoe joined our family 2 1/2 years ago. She turned 18 a few days ago. While she may not officially be our foster daughter now, she will always be a daughter of our hearts. We’re so proud of her and excited to see her graduate this June. • #quallsfam #happybirthday #fostercare #onethankfulmom
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