My plans for an Independence Day post faded away last night as I lay next to Dimples stroking her head as she fell asleep. I was discouraged — honestly, I was much more than discouraged. As she drifted off, I whispered, “You’re going to be okay.” Her eyes shot open and she said, “No, I’m not!”
It is 3:00 in the afternoon and I am finally putting up today’s Tuesday Topic. It’s a good one, so even though it hasn’t been up all day, I hope you will take a moment to leave a comment. Stacy wrote,
What looked like an initial easy first 6 months home, one of my new four is now constantly lying to me (never to my husband). She will look right at me, lie then say, “Mom I promise I am not lying!!” This happens over and over for sometimes hours on end, in the meantime she is screaming like a small 2 year old having a fit. She is around 8 years old. I started rocking her in the rocking chair two nights ago and then instantly had two great days, but WHAM, today she is back to not listening to anything I say and lying…
Today marks my 28th day of rocking Honeybee! We began on December 20th, so clearly, I didn’t manage to rock for 28 consecutive days, but we carved out the time every day we both were home and there was even a sliver of time to rock.
Our 15 minutes have often been taken up with Honeybee talking, she is an 11 year old girl after all, and she has lots to say. Because we’ve worked hard to have our time alone, she has told me more about her life at the orphanage, about her friendships, and other memories. It has been precious.
Yesterday marked the one year anniversary of A Bushel and A Peck at this new website, www.OneThankfulMom.com. I started with a small blogspot address on June 19, 2006 having absolutely no idea that I would still be writing today. I figured that once our children had been home for a short time, I would have nothing more to say.
Apparently that is not the case and most days I think of numerous posts to write — if only I could find a few quiet moments.
Thank you so much for being part of my life through A Bushel and A Peck — I am honored that in the midst of your busy days, you take the time to read my humble offerings. Even if you don’t have time to read this post, would you please skip to the bottom and read the last bit? It would mean the world to me to hear from you.
In honor of this day, here is the first half of the year in review. The second half will follow tomorrow.