Eby has been enjoying painting with watercolors lately and yesterday he came to me with a painting he wanted to send to his sister, Mesky, in Italy. That sounded good to me, so he dictated a few sentences for me to add to the picture and put it on my desk.
Our friendly UPS man came to deliver an Amazon box later that day, which is always exciting. As Little Man proudly carried the box up to the house, I heard Eby yell, “Stop! Wait! Stop!” The UPS man stopped his truck as Eby raced down the front lawn, the painting clutched in his hand.
I saw this through the window and called out to Eby that the UPS man couldn’t take the painting, it had to be mailed from the post office. The UPS man saw me and I waved him off as Eby stopped in his tracks and turned back toward the house. His head was hanging down and soon tears came, he cried, “I want to send my painting to Mesky.” I comforted him and explained that the painting needs an envelope – with an address- and postage – that will take it all the way to Italy.
This was more than disappointment, it was a deep moment of the heart for Eby who shares a sweet bond with the sister he was separated from as a baby. We’ll need to make a trip to the post office and mail it together.
I want to thank all of you who responded so beautifully and creatively to yesterday’s Tuesday Topic about helping a little boy attach to his mother. I have only a few small things to add, some of which have already been mentioned. I would try rocking him once a day if he can tolerate it – even if he is on your lap facing outward at first. If he can’t tolerate being held, have him sit next to you. Give him a cup of warm milk, you can even sweeten it a little, and it should be offered only when he is rocking with you. If he refuses milk, try giving him a caramel instead since the mouth mimics nursing when eating a sticky caramel. Bubble gum is also a decent choice. I would also consider you being the only person who gives him sweet treats for a period of time.
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901 – 910 giving thanks
Noah’s birthday dinner tonight
less coughing, more sleeping
a good appointment with the ENT
Samuel’s new job
friends who love my children
Jesus – His great love and mercy
Eby giving a few more hugs these days
my sister, Laura, and her party-planning skills
Sweet Pea’s graduation on Saturday
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