Birthdays and Gratitude

 

Sunshine's birthday one week before mine
Sunshine’s birthday – one week before mine

Thank you for all of the wonderful comments on Monday’s post about turning fifty. I am clearly in good company with many of us parenting young children.

A couple of you mentioned simply being grateful for every year, and I agree. As my 50th birthday approached, I found myself thinking of friends who didn’t get to live for 50 years, and how thankful I should be. Ten years ago (almost exactly) I wept with gratitude over being in remission from a blood disorder that had gotten severe. Death had seemed a very real possibility, and when I was finally well, I determined never to forget how thankful I was to be alive.

I wanted to live life differently and not waste a moment; in many ways, that has happened. But how easily I forget to be thankful for every day! I lose sight of God’s goodness in my life and focus on the struggle.

There is so much more we could talk about, and I would love to hear more from you.

At the moment, I’m heading out to our apple tree where Sunshine is going to bury her fish, Indigo. We had a sad night when she realized he was gone. This morning she gently placed him in a small jewelry box and is ready to say goodbye.

The little boys are grabbing their coats. All for now.

[Remember to enter the drawing for a $100 gift card courtesy of Maxwell House!]

Have a great day, friends.

Lisa

 

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Let me introduce myself. Russ and I are the parents of twelve children by birth and adoption, and sometimes more through foster care. I'm the creator of One Thankful Mom which has been as much of a gift to me as to my readers. In 2011 I became a TBRI® Pracitioner* and have lived and breathed connected parenting ever since. I'm deeply honored to be the co-author, together with the late Dr. Karyn Purvis, of The Connected Parent; it is her final written work. I love speaking at events for adoptive and foster parents. I'm also the co-founder of The Adoption Connection, a podcast and resource site for adoptive moms. I mentor and encourage adoptive moms so you can find courage and hope in your journeys of loving your children well.

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  1. Fairy godmother
    February 13, 2014

    Oh, poor sunshine! (And Indigo!). Tell her I'm sorry :(. And that the pellets are on their way for her blanket :).

    Love love this picture!

    And your point about what a privilege it is to live to whatever age we are!

    Love you.

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    1. Lisa Qualls
      February 13, 2014

      Thanks, friend. Sunshine is excited about her weighted blanket and wants her fairy godmother to deliver it in person.

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  2. Elizabeth
    February 15, 2014

    Lovely photo! We only need our family (even though it is smaller) for a good party at our house as well. My mom is 57 and is parenting a very needy, high energy 10 year old as well as a 14 & 13 year old who are also from a "hard place." She's living life often close to the 'end of her rope.' (Which, as her highly attached daughter, is hard to watch) I am thankful that the end of our rope is not the end of Jesus'.

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