One of my favorite parenting tools is scripts. Did you know that when a child is upset her ability to process language is greatly reduced? Scripts are short, concise, easily understood phrases. They’re used to move a child toward optimal behavior through play and nurture. Because a script is easy to understand, parents don’t...
A guide for adoptive and foster moms Being an adoptive or foster mom presents unique challenges. Many parents grow weary and begin to lose hope. I know, because it happened to me. This FREE guide will help you identify ways to regain hope and remember you’re a good mom, doing good work. You are amazing! * indicates...
Have you ever felt discouraged and sad as a parent? I’m guessing you have. I wrote this at the end of our time on Whidbey Island. It seemed a bit whiney and maybe discouraging, so I didn’t post it. Today, I read it again and thought it may help you to know you’re not...
Do you have middle schoolers? Are you wondering how to manage these years? As of today, I have five teens and one pre-teen (plus five young adults). I love teens, they’re interesting, fun to be with, and their worlds are exploding with opportunity. They also need a lot of guidance. Middle school is a...
Paying the price for sloppy parenting is no fun – for parent or child. It would be nice to say this is a theoretical situation, just a teaching moment for parents needing advice, but that’s not the case. Once again, you get to learn from my mistakes. I have issues with saying, “No.” It’s...
“But, what should I do?” my friend asked as she told me about an issue with her teen. Her oldest is the same age as one of my youngest, which means I should have all the answers, right? With one teen in college, three teens in high school, and Ebenezer turning 12, we’re still...
