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Pruning by Chainsaw

We had some crazy, overgrown rose bushes on the north side of our house.   Eleven years ago when we moved here, the roses were lovely.  Planted by a true gardener, they had colorful blooms and were pleasantly pruned.  Then we arrived.  I am sad to confess that I am not much of a gardener.  I had six children, homeschooled, and although I liked flowers, I didn’t have enough interest or time to learn about something as fussy as roses.

The plants grew larger and wilder.  On occasion we pruned them or treated them for aphids, but for the most part, they grew and we were happy with whatever colorful flowers managed to appear.  Then Mimi decided to have her wedding reception in the yard and it was time to whip the roses into shape.

My friend Amy came over and looked at the huge, overgrown plants.  She said it was time to prune them down — way down — to knee height.  The question was how to go about it.  The roses were covered with thorns and had long crazy branches.

She looked at me and said, “Well, Russ could take a chainsaw to them.”  A chainsaw?  Did I hear her correctly?  I thought roses were delicate and needed to be handled with care. But these had grown so out of control that the severity of a chainsaw was needed to bring them back to health.

A friend pointed me to this great series of short videos, Insights and Gifts, from Karyn Purvis on the Empowered to Connect website.  I’ve watched the first four and plan to watch the remaining ones over the next day or two.  With each one only three to five minutes long, it is a small investment of time. 

Friends,

Thank you for commenting on my last post, Meditations on a Messy Life.  It means so much to me to hear from you and to know that what I have written is meaningful.  I don’t want this blog to be merely a place where I become self-absorbed or believe myself to be self-important.  I don’t have room in my life for that.  If I can serve, if I can help, then I can justify taking up this space and using my time to write down these thoughts.

I offer them humbly and pray that they are pleasing to God.

~Lisa

This week’s Tuesday Topic comes from a reader who is waiting for a referral.  I bet that many of you can answer this, and I’m interested to see what you have to say:

If you had time to read only two books to prepare you for your adoption, what would they be?  We can’t afford to buy them all, so we need to choose wisely which books to purchase vs. get through the library or borrow from friends.  Which two books could you simply not do without, the ones that you refer to again and again?

If you have adopted children of various ages or special needs, feel free to recommend two books for each particular situation.

Let’s help each other out and give our book recommendations; I’m always ready to add to my library.  Amazon and I are very close.

I’ll hold your comments until Tuesday, March 30th and post them all at once. I’m looking forward to reading your comments!

~Lisa

Playing puppies — and yes, those are swim goggles on Little Man’s head, and yes, the (broken) cell phone is a toy.

I have lots of small things coming to my mind that I want to get out to you, so here we go.

First, you may want to follow the blog of the Livesay family in Haiti. I read today that they took five of their children to the US Embassy where they were going to be taken to a cargo plane and flown to an unknown location in the US. It is difficult to imagine what they are experiencing in Haiti, but reading their blog helps me to feel personally connected to the crisis.

Second, I want to give an update on Dimples’ tummy for those of you have asked. I didn’t realize that there are still a few biopsy results pending, including one for lactose intolerance, which has always been a question for us. Thank you for the advice many of you have offered. If these come back negative, we’ll seriously look at medication side effects as well as a couple of other things. The doctor said to be completely thorough we should do a CT scan of Dimples’ head on the very remote chance that there could be a growth or something causing pressure. None of us think that is the case. I asked the nurse if the doctor was only doing the CT to make me feel that he had left no stone unturned and she replied that just yesterday they found a tumor in the brain of a child who was having chronic nausea and vomiting. We’ll decide about the CT next week.

Honeybee and our friends are in Jimma now. I am thinking of them constantly and praying for a rich and wonderful time there. The younger children at home are missing her, especially Little Man who is very attached to his older sister. Boo has been doing a good job keeping the little boys busy and yesterday they played an elaborate puppy game.

My Sensory books haven’t arrived yet, but I expect they will soon. I’m ready…I think.

All for now.

~Lisa

If you would like to know more about how the orphanage, God’s Littlest Angels, in Haiti is fairing after the tragic earthquake, you can follow the Director’s blog.

~Lisa

You all know how near and dear to my heart AHOPE is. By the grace of God, AHOPE saved my daughters’ lives. I’m not saying that to be dramatic; it is simply true.

AHOPE is From HIV to Home’s featured partner for our World AIDS Day 5 for 5 campaign.

Welcome to Day 2 of our Five for Five campaign for World AIDS Day – a chance to give $5 a day for 5 days – each day funding a different project serving orphans living with HIV!
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Today’s project is “AHOPE for Children” in Ethiopia. AHOPE Ethiopia provides two children’s homes exclusively for the care of children infected with HIV, with a capacity of about 100 children total. The Child Development Center is a community outreach program that provides services essential to enable a destitute extended family to keep its orphaned children at home. The first Child Development Center was opened in September of 2007 in an impoverished neighborhood of Addis Ababa. It has the capacity to assist 100 children and their guardians and is designed as a model that is suitable for replication in other needy areas as funding allows.
All “5 for 5″ donations received today (December 2) will be designated toward AHOPE’s Child Development Center – enabling extended families and communities to keep their orphaned children at home.
To give:

click here to be directed to our donor page at Network for Good and type “5 for 5″ in the designation box.

To share:

share the link to www.fromhivtohome.org wherever you can today – Facebook, Twitter, emails, blogs!
Come back tomorrow for a new project!

Our Tuesday’s Answers will be up in just a bit….I’m working on it while packing to leave for Seattle. This is probably not the best example of multi-tasking.

~Lisa

I’m a little late today…but joining in nonetheless. Since I LOVE spending hours each week in my car, I decided to make a quick (nearly two hour each way) trip for an unexpected appointment with an oral surgeon. Fortunately, the problem was small and easy to resolve. Now on to the important topic I had planned to blog about today.

Today is World AIDS Day – a day that I hope will cause us to pause and consider the effect of AIDS in our world, particularly on continents that are not so fortunate as we are. I wish I could show you the effect of AIDS in Ethiopia, where a person cannot remain untouched by this disease. So many children are left to care for themselves as their parents die. So many grandparents are left to raise their grandchildren whose parents have died of AIDS.

I live in America, where there is food, and comfort, and ARV’s that keep my children healthy. I thank God that tomorrow I will get in the car for yet another trip to Seattle, but there I will find the finest medical care for my children, clean needles for blood draws, high-tech laboratory equipment that will give us helpful information, H1N1 vaccines, all in a place that cares about children and has medical providers who are both brilliant and kind.

From HIV to Home is launching a Five for Five event today. I will be linking to Jennifer’s blog each day during this project, but to make it extra easy for you today, here is what she posted on her blog:

Welcome to World AIDS Day and the start of our Five for Five campaign – a chance to give $5 a day for 5 days – each day funding a different project serving orphans living with HIV!
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Today’s project is “Agape Children’s Home” in Thailand. Located in Chiang Mai Thailand, the Agape Home for babies with HIV/AIDS opened in May 1996 as a response to the plight of children impacted by the spread of HIV/AIDS across Thailand. All of the children who come to the Agape Home to live are, or are at risk of being, HIV positive. Many of them have already lost their parents to AIDS, and there are no other options for their care.

All “5 for 5″ donations received today (December 1) will be designated toward Agape’s current building project – a village of smaller homes where children will be able to live in a more family-type situation rather than in one large facility.
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To give:


click here to be directed to our donor page at Network for Good and type “5 for 5″ in the designation box.

To share:

share the link to this page (www.fromhivtohome.org) wherever you can today – Facebook, Twitter, emails, blogs!

[Note: In honor of World AIDS Day, I am postponing our Tuesday Topic until tomorrow - if you were planning to reply, but haven't gotten to it, it isn't too late to join the discussion.]

~Lisa


December 1st is World AIDS Day. My life has been turned upside down by AIDS and its devastating effects. In Ethiopia, I doubt there is a single person who is completely unaffected by HIV/AIDS. So often I am overwhelmed by this desperate crisis in our world and I wonder what on earth I can do? But here is the secret. Each one of us can make a difference – we can reach out and care about somebody whose life has been touched by HIV/AIDS.

Five Things You Can Do

1. Read: If you only have time to read one book, I recommend There Is No Me Without You: One Woman’s Odyssey to Rescue Her Country’s Children. Written by Melissa Fay Greene, an adoptive mother, the book tells the story of one Ethiopian woman who responded to the AIDS orphan crisis with practical compassion. It is a compelling and interesting read.

If you have time for two books, get 28: Stories of AIDS in Africa by Stephanie Nolen. My exposure to AIDS in Africa had been limited primarily to Ethiopia, but this book broadened my education by featuring a short story about twenty-eight different people across the continent and how AIDS has affected them. 28 will give you a quick education about HIV/AIDS in a captivating style.

A reader also recommended the book, Scared: A Novel on the Edge of the World, about orphans and AIDS in Swaziland. I have not read it yet, but after reading the reviews, I just added it to my Amazon cart.

2. Sponsor: For as little as $10.00 a month, you can provide care for an HIV+ orphan. Through Circle Embrace, a sponsorship program recently launched by From HIV to Home, you can join with others to create a Circle of sponsors for a child living with HIV/AIDS. Consider giving holiday gifts with a purpose by creating your own Circle. It is easy and only a click away.

3. Care: At the end of 2007, there were 11.7 million AIDS orphans in Africa alone. These are actual children, not just numbers. If the AIDS crisis seems remote to you, take a few moments to watch this video of the children of AHOPE. If you want to get even more personal, watch my family’s video of our Ethiopian adoption.

4. Shop with a purpose. The holidays will be here soon; this year purchase gifts that will benefit children with HIV/AIDS. In honor of World AIDS Day, From HIV to Home has a wonderful new necklace available. Make a donation of $50 or more and we will send one to you. I love the concept of embracing those with HIV/AIDS and the necklace looks great. All proceeds from this necklace go directly to the Circle Embrace Child Sponsorship Program.

Shop at the AHOPE Store which has everything from clothing and jewelry to aluminum water bottles.

I know both of these organizations personally, having previously volunteered for AHOPE, and currently working with From HIV to Home, and can confidently say that your donation will be put to good use.

World Vision is also an excellent organization offering gift-giving opportunities. You can give a gift to a child in the developing world in honor of your friend or family member. The options are endless, from two chickens ($25.00) to a sheep ($105.00).

5. Adopt: Consider adopting an HIV+ child. It isn’t as complicated as you might think. The last three years have seen an explosion in the number of families adopting HIV+ children. When we began the process, a handful of HIV+ children had been adopted from AHOPE, our daughters’ orphanage. Now, the children are finding families very quickly. For more information on HIV+ adoption, contact Adoption Advocates International.

Don’t wait until December 1st to wear a red ribbon. Do something today and when World AIDS Day arrives, you will be ready to tell somebody else what it is all about.

~Lisa

Note: I have had some requests from folks who would like to share this post on their blogs, in church newsletters, etc. I would be honored! Please feel free to share a link to this post. If you would like to share the actual content, please email me at thankfulmom@gmail.com

In honor of World AIDS Day, we have a wonderful new necklace available at From HIV to Home. Make a donation of $50 or more and we will send one to you. I love the concept of embracing those with HIV/AIDS and the necklace looks great – I love mine. All proceeds from this necklace go directly to our new Child Sponsorship Program, which you should also be sure to check out. We are starting small and currently have eleven HIV+ children in South Africa we are supporting.


Another place you must visit is Moms, Ministry, and More. Heidi is doing an amazing giveaway while highlighting the work of missionaries around the world. It is very creative and I have big hopes of winning the little Matrioshka ornaments and mittens from Russia. The event ends on Nov. 10th, so click your way to her site before it is too late.

This is the first weekend in a very long time that I have not gone to a faraway X-Country race, or traveled to Seattle. I have big plans…namely, finally packing away the summer clothes and their assorted bins that shame me every time I go upstairs. It is long overdue and must be done.

Have a great weekend and Embrace someone you love.

~Lisa