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In addition to our our Top Twenty Toys, there is another category of favorite gifts worth mentioning. Many times rather than buying our children toys, we give them useful tools.  These aren’t necessarily tools in the sense of hammers and screwdrivers, although we’ve given those too, but something that can be used to accomplish a task or purpose.

Here are some of our favorites:

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Need ideas for Christmas gifts?  In my nearly 25 years of mothering, I’ve seen many toys come and go.  As Christmas approaches, I hope I can offer some helpful suggestions. Some toys with longevity are expensive, while others cost nearly nothing or can easily be found at thrift stores and yard sales. You might want to put these on your “watch list.”

Here we go!

Yesterday was the first Sunday of Advent. I love everything about Advent – anticipating the coming of Christ, the candles, scripture readings that tell the story of Jesus, and the children around the table, candlelight glowing on their faces. Jesus came because we need Him – once lost, we can be found in Him, and Advent leads us deeper into that knowledge.

Our Advent traditions are simple, if they weren’t we would never do them. Despite the best intentions, complicated plans don’t go well with our life.

First, I gather five candles.

We woke up to snow and it is beautiful, but I’m a little bit worried about our trip to Seattle. We’re watching the weather, especially Snoqualmie Pass, and waiting to see how it is going to look in the morning. Noah will probably do most of the driving, and if we have to chain up, we have Samuel and Isaiah to help. I have to admit, I have never put chains on a car myself; I’m a bit of a wimp when it comes to things like that.

Last night I was looking through some notes from our TBRI training and right at the top of the page was this great quote from Dr. David Cross,

If you are going to have a new culture, you need a new language.

He went on to say that as we parent children from “hard places,” we need to use quick, effective, simple phrases.

Our children are often on high alert and will not respond to a barrage of words; their brains simply cannot receive that much input.  I realize how many of these phrases have become part of our parenting.  

Last Friday morning the kids and I set out on a great adventure. We planned to take a nature hike, complete with backpacks, nature journals, colored pencils, water bottles and snacks. My friend, Liz, knew just the place, the only problem was, she wasn’t exactly sure how to find it. No matter, we loaded up the kids, I hung my little DVD player between the seats, popped in Multiplication Rock, and off we went.

We had a lovely drive, as we listened to “three is a magic number,” chatted, and watched for signs that would show us we were getting near our destination.

I had big plans for this morning.  Despite the fact that we got home from our amazing weekend at 11:30 last night, this was going to be Little Man’s first day of Kindergarten.  That, of course, necessitated putting on cute clothes, making sure his face was clean and moisturized, and taking an adorable picture on the front porch.  It didn’t happen.

As I stood in my kitchen surveying the piles of duffles, backpacks, and shoes, I doubted whether it was realistic to start school with the two little boys.  My older children were off to a good start; maybe one more day wouldn’t matter.  But I also knew that if I waited until I had everything tidy and ready to go, it could easily be another week.

Here is a question that is quite personal to me as we navigate our children’s unique needs.  Lisa E. asked,

What are the pros and cons of homeschooling vs. attending school outside the home in children with attachment challenges and severe trauma? We are currently trying to make this decision for the fall and I am guessing many of your readers have this question as well.

Every family is different, every child is unique, and many of us have tried a variety of approaches to educating our children from “hard places.”  This is a relevant and timely question for many families.

What are your thoughts and experiences?  Take a moment to let us know – we want to hear from you.  You can keep it short, or write a long comment, whatever you can squeeze into your day.

Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts.

Encourage one another,

Lisa

Eby got some very neat gifts for his birthday including this one that has provided days of learning and enjoyment, a Live Butterfly Garden.  First there was the anticipation of waiting for the caterpillars to arrive – just getting mail is exciting when you are six, but mail with wriggling caterpillars is even better. The slightly gross factor was another benefit for Eby, and the girls didn’t mind it either.

The caterpillars ate the food in the container they arrived in and eventually climbed to the lid, hung upside down, and formed chrysalides (yes, that is the plural of “chrysalis” – I even googled it to be sure).  Once they had all formed, we opened the container, removed the liner of the lid and pinned it to the inside of the mesh Butterfly Garden.

I love this picture of Jonah about to be swallowed by a very big fish, surrounded by all of that water.  Which reminds me, we have water again at our house! I am very thankful to report that the problem with our well was relatively minor and was repaired in one day.  That certainly made my life easier.

I’ve been thinking about our Tuesday Topic, How We Help our Children Feel Safe, and I have some thoughts, a few of which have actually been typed into a draft.  Hopefully I’ll have enough quiet to get it done soon.  I have several writing projects in the works for Empowered to Connect that I need to get working on  too.

My favorite time in our homeschool day is when we sit down to read the Bible, followed by a science/nature book, and other stories.  I end our time with reading lessons for Eby and Little Man in my super-simple, tried-and-true, Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons.  I know I just wrote that I had decided to continue using the One Year Bible for Children, which I love, but then I ordered just one more children’s Bible from Amazon and fell in love.