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Our Trips to Ethiopia

Honeybee is in the air on her way to Ethiopia. We dropped her off at Signe’s house last night where she spent the night before getting up to leave at 4:00AM. They had an easy drive to Seattle, with the exception of nearly hitting a deer. I spoke with Honeybee three times before she boarded her plane, and she seemed relaxed and happy.

This journey is so important for her, and now that the busy work of getting Honeybee ready to go has ended, I find myself feeling the weight of it. She is traveling to her birthplace for the first time in her memory, and meeting relatives who have not seen her since she was a baby. I hope they tell her stories about her mother that she can treasure in her heart. I get tears in my eyes just thinking of it.

We don’t actually know that this meeting is going to take place the way we hope it will. We only know that Adoption Advocates International will make every effort for it to happen. The agency has arranged a driver and social worker who will take them to Jimma where Signe’s son also has family. They plan to visit both families…but I know that plans don’t always work out the way we hope they will. My prayer is that at the very least she will see her grandmother and her older sister.

You’ll have to forgive the quality of the picture above, but I forgot my camera and had to use my phone. Signe and Honeybee are standing next to a photo of beautiful Jubilee, who will return with them in 12 days. Having been through the process four times, I still find myself in awe of what Signe is about to do – to meet a child who is a stranger, take her in her arms and heart, and make Jubilee her daughter. So beautiful.

I hope to hear from them and will update my blog as their trip progresses.

[Update 1/11/10 noon: Signe emailed to say they arrived safely and are at the guest house. I hope to hear from them tomorrow!]

~Lisa


Honeybee and I are packing for her big trip. She leaves for Ethiopia bright and early on Sunday morning. I am very sad that I am not traveling with her, along with my friends Signe, Michele, and Heather. Signe’s husband, Rick, is driving them to Seattle early in the morning to catch an afternoon flight that will take them to Frankfurt and then on to Addis Ababa.

Honeybee can think of nothing but her trip and wants me to do the same…which is a little challenging given that I have ten other children. She has been counting down the days for the last few weeks and is beside herself with excitement.

Yesterday I printed photos for Honeybee, Dimples, and Little Man’s families that are now neatly arranged in small albums. Honeybee is particularly excited to give her grandmother the pictures. I shopped for small gifts, bought “just add water” foods, chocolate (of course), and hair care supplies. I also got a shirt for Jubilee (Honeybee’s friend who is coming home with her new mom, Signe) that matches Honeybee’s, a sleep cap for Jubilee, and two fun card games for the girls.

After searching high and low, I finally found a small, round locket to put photos of Russ and me in for Honeybee to wear while she is apart from us. A friend asked if I am worried about her attachment to us and whether she will want to stay in Ethiopia. I confidently said, “No, we want to encourage her relationships with her extended family and friends.” But deep in my heart…there is an inkling of insecurity. It flits through my stomach every once in awhile, and my mind rushes to anxious thoughts. Yet I believe with all my heart that maintaining her love for Ethiopia and her family is the healthiest and best thing for Honeybee. I only wish I could be with her.

Back to packing!

~Lisa


Honeybee’s passport! She leaves for Ethiopia on January 10th and is getting more excited each day.


~Lisa


Thank you for your patience with my lack of blogging. We had the most wonderful Thanksgiving, with lots of special time with our children and good friends, which left little time for sitting at the computer. I have to admit, although I missed blogging and worried a little bit that I might slip into oblivion, I am glad I spent the time as I did. In addition to Thanksgiving festivities, we have been on the road to and from Seattle, which takes a full two or more days each week. The trips have been worth every minute spent, but they take a lot out of me.

Our Tuesday Topic this week was:

Apart from meeting your child, what was a highlight of your experience when you traveled to your child’s country of birth?

I loved reading your answers to this question and was especially pleased to see the many countries you represent: China, Guatemala, Ethiopia, and India. Here are excerpts of your answers, the full responses can be found in the comments of the original post, Tuesday Topic: Adoption Travel Highlights.

lorismusings said…
…We came away with a greater appreciation for the culture and history of India and a desire to learn more. We know that we want to take our Indian adopted kids back to India when they are older so that they can see and experience their roots.

We were also able to personally observe the socio-economic climate of India. There is a huge chasm between the very poor and those who are doing well. It was a shock to us as insulated Americans who had never been to a third world or developing nation to see poverty everywhere you looked.

We now have an intense desire to be involved in whatever ways we can in easing the suffering of the poor all over the world. When you see it face to face you are never the same…

christall said…

I was in Ethiopia for a month and aside from meeting/being with Ava the highlight of my trip was the time I spent at Mother Theresa’s orphanage working with the children and the time I spent out in Addis talking with, praying with, feeding the people I came into contact with. I am so thankful that my daughter was able to spend time with me in Addis really engaging in an activity that is very important to me. Buying and giving food to the beggars on the street and then praying for them – in our first few days of meeting, my daughter was able to see what is important to me – she got to see who I am… We worked at 5 different care centers – together, side-by-side and if you ask her today she will tell you that the time we spent doing that was the best part of our time in Ethiopia – and I agree 100%!

Jon and Jamie said…

I loved meeting people and seeing the gorgeous ethiopian countryside. The city is a study of contrasts, but I enjoyed all of the smells, sounds and sights, I absorbed the wonder of a country so steeped in history and rich culture. for me though the highlight truly was the people, they are so warm and generous, gentle and caring, a woman tried to give me her umbrella, the only item she had, for my little guy to keep the sun off. Everyone was so kind and helpful, and their love for children is so apparent, from the first hours in the country when my eldest did not feel well and little old ladies petted her back and offered her soda, to the grandmother who blessed Amelia and Gabe and admonished them to be good(I think that is what she was saying:) everyone loved my children as their own.
Also seeing AHOPE was a huge highlight…

Donna said…

I loved being able to visit historical landmarks around China and see (and touch) beautiful things that were many hundreds of years old! Nothing we have in the USA is that old! It really gave me goosebumps!

Donna
Our Blog: Double Happiness!

Kimberly said…

This is an easy question! Meeting all the other families and watching them meet their daughters for the first time. I felt so honored and the bond between all of us is going strong two years later. We communicate via email and facebook and we had a reunion this summer. I expected to meet great people but I was pleasantly surprised to find that they became my family. These precious girls have so many adults who love them and it thrills me to know that as they grow up they will have each other to lean on too. We are all so incredibly blessed.

Shonah said…

The highlight of our trip to Ethiopia aside from finally getting our hands on our baby was visiting Lalibela. We visited Lalibela for the first 3 days our our trip to Ethiopia. We hired a guide that was awesome and saw the amazing churches within Lalibela and several outside of Lalibela. We were treated to a coffee ceremony and taken out to listen to traditional music and see traditional dancing.

We sat out on our balcony that over looked part of the town and had amazing views of the mountians. We watched life in Lalibela happen before our eyes; children herding animals, women weaving baskets, men using mules to carry stone. We listened to the sounds, breathed in deep the aroma and took in the beauty of this holy little city in Ethiopia…

triplehmoms said…

… I also think if you are able to meet the birthfamily of your child you should do so. It may be scary to you and a bit awkward, but if the family is able to communicate that they are ok with the child going, it could be an easier transition. In other words, the family could give the child “permission” to go with the adoptive family. If you are unable to meet the birthfamily or if the birthfamily has not played the role of a care taker for the child, having the care taker tell your child these things is important. Even though we can recognize that our family situation is “better,” the child’s current living situation is his life. I don’t know if I am making sense here or not. Lastly, I would suggest that you plan to return to your child’s country of birth. I know that when I return to Guatemala with my daughters, one of my daughters always tells me “I’m home now, Mommy.” Yes, she loves me and I love her. She, however, feels Guatemalan and will always be “at home” there.

Mamita J said…

…We met a native Guatemalan family (Edwin and Nely) through a friend here in town, before we had our referral. They happened to live near Antigua, which is a lovely vacation destination. The wife has a booth in the artisans market. (It’s one of my very favorite places in the world.) So on our first visit, we met up with them and they took us to their home in the nearby village. They were so warm and hospitable. It gave us such an appreciation of and respect for the people of Guatemala.

On our third trip, we met two young girls named Flor and Vincy. They absolutely grabbed our hearts. It was right before Christmas. We took them out to eat, and my mom gave them money for shoes for Christmas. We gave them the jackets off our backs. They were so grateful, they cried. So did we. :-)

When I got back home, I brought pictures to my friend. As we were looking at the pictures, her mouth dropped open. “That’s Flor!” She recognized our little friend! It turns out that Flor is Edwin’s niece! …

Ajay said…

When God first put adopting from Ethiopia on our heart, we started to sponsor a child in Ethiopia, three years later, while we were picking up our son we got spend a day going to visit the child we had been sponsoring! It turned out he lived just three miles from the guest house we stayed in! We’ve now signed up to sponsor two more girls from Ethiopia and when we travel to pick up our daughter, hopefully we’ll be able to visit them too! It just makes us feel more connected to our kids birth country by being able to be apart of other childrens lives! What a blessing all around!

Heidi Mehltretter said…

Our ultimate highlight was taking all three of my kids with me and spending a month in Ethiopia getting to know our newest son in HIS environment, then traveling home with four kids and managing to do almost all of it with frequent flyer miles! Best vacation of my life, with the exception of missing my husband and wishing he could share the experience with us.

Although Russ is a seasoned world traveler, I had not traveled much outside of the US prior to our adoptions. I didn’t know what to expect or how I would handle being so far outside of my normal life. I was happy to discover that I loved being in Ethiopia. There were discomforts, lack of water and jet lag were the two most difficult, but I am so thankful we have been able to experience our childrens’ home country. I have now been to Ethiopia twice and Russ has
been three times.

The highlight of each trip has been spending time with our children’s family members. Last August when we went to get Honeybee, we traveled to Soddo where our boys were born. While there we went on the adventure of a lifetime searching for Eby’s grandfather. I will never forget the kind people, beautiful scenery, precarious roads, hyenas, or the joy we all felt when we finally made our way to his round, mud tukul in the darkness of night. The memories of that trip will always be with us.

Next week’s Tuesday Topic will be up tomorrow! If you have a topic/question you would like to suggest, please email it to me at: thankfulmom[at]gmail[dot]com

Please put Tuesday Topic in the subject line.

I’m off to Seattle!

~Lisa


This morning Honeybee chose the winner of the lovely quilt! Originally I planned to write the ticket numbers on paper and have the girls cut them apart, but when I realized she sold 861 tickets, I opted for a random number generator on the computer.

Russ offered to set it up for me, and he is known for his precision. For those of you who may be concerned about the fairness of the selection process, Russ ran a “Monte Carlo simulation with 40,000 iterations to test whether the random number generator truly represented a uniform probability distribution. He then tested the goodness of fit using a chi-squared probability test at a 5% significance level. Everything was okay.”

Whew, that PhD comes in really handy sometimes!

Honeybee took her responsibility of pressing the button quite seriously. We all gathered around Russ’ computer waiting to see the winning number.

Then we went to my computer to see who had the number 492. And the winner is:

Margaret M. of Longview, WA!!

Thank you to each one of you who generously gave to make Honeybee’s dream come true. Together you gave $2,093.00! She is so excited and can hardly wait to see her grandmother and friends. She knew that if God wanted her to go, He would make a way…and He did.

A very special thank you to Kari Nichols, the creator of this beautiful quilt, and to her sister who lovingly donated it to help Honeybee raise the funds for her trip. I look forward to meeting both of you in person one day!

Today is Thanksgiving and our hearts are overflowing with thanks to God for all that He has done in our lives. We are thankful for the amazing children He has given us and the way He is healing hearts before our very eyes. Today we will spend the afternoon and evening with special friends who are walking this rocky path with us – we look forward to laughing, eating, singing, and talking around the table.

We hope your Thanksgiving is filled with family, friends, food, and thankful hearts!

~Lisa

(dimensions: 69″ x 55″)

Honeybee has a dream. She wants to travel to Ethiopia to visit her grandmother and help bring one of her special friends home from AHOPE. She has been talking about this for the past few weeks, and despite the fact that we don’t have the means to purchase a plane ticket for her, she believes that God does. Her faith and hope are so great and I want to believe with her.


Last week I spoke with a friend who just brought two daughters home from AHOPE. These two girls arrived at AHOPE shortly after Honeybee did and they grew up together. When I told their mother about Honeybee’s desire to travel to Ethiopia with my friend, Signe, she immediately offered to send me a quilt her sister designed and made, and suggested I raffle it off on my blog. So here I am…a little hesitant, but Honeybee is full of faith that this quilt will help her make her way to Ethiopia.

I had hoped to travel with Honeybee and Signe, but after discussing it with Dimples’ and Eby’s therapist, I have come to the sad realization that I cannot go. For now, Deborah feels that I should not be gone for more than three days at a time. This is very hard for me, but one of my best friends, Michele, is going to go in my place and be Honeybee’s special companion.

You can win this beautiful quilt and help fulfill Honeybee’s dream:

~Entering is easy! Just make a donation via the “Chip-In” button on the top right of my blog. You are automatically entered for the drawing. I will track your entries via the email address provided at the time of your donation.

~Every $5 donation earns one entry. Every $20 earns 5 entries!

~The winner will be randomly drawn on December 18, 2009 and announced here.

~The Winner must contact me within 10 days and provide a mailing address. I will ship the quilt after Christmas, unless the winner requests that it be shipped on Dec. 19th.

~If you blog, FaceBook, or Twitter, about this event, leave me a comment at any time during the event and I will give you an extra entry.

~Please leave a comment or email me if you have any questions or problems donating.

~This is a simple raffle to support my daughter in her desire to travel to Ethiopia. If we do not raise enough for her to go, the money will be donated to From HIV to Home. To be ultra-careful, I reserve the right to make any changes necessary to this raffle!

~Today, November 19, is Early Bird Extra Entry Day!! To thank you for your help in kicking this event off, I am doubling entries for anyone who donates today!

Below is a photo showing some detail of the quilt.


(Note: added Thursday night – Nov. 19. Thank you for your outpouring of love and generosity to Honeybee. You can imagine her excitement as she has watched the Chip-In numbers go up and up today. I am humbled and in awe of your kindness and God’s faithfulness. We have great hopes of seeing her dream fulfilled.)

~Lisa


Have I ever mentioned that on our last trip to Ethiopia we spent a whirlwind 40 hours in Rome? When flying Ethiopian Air, there is a refueling stop in Rome early in the morning. On our first trip to Ethiopia, we were sleeping when all at once we descended into Rome. Russ woke me just in time to see the rural landscape before we landed. The plane didn’t pull up to terminal, rather the airline refueled and replenished the food out on the tarmac. There was even a brief frenzy of cleaning. We were supposed to sit quietly in our seats, but Russ and I couldn’t stand it so we snuck to the back where fresh air was pouring through the open doors.

Russ traveled to Ethiopia two months later to get Dimples and once again, he landed in Rome, but was stuck on the plane.

When we began planning our trip to get Honeybee, Russ said, “I’ve been to Rome four times and never gotten off the plane. This time we need to do it.”

We thought it might be expensive, but our travel agent with Susan Parr Travel checked all of our options and found that it was only $50 more per ticket. We decided to go for it. Russ booked our hotel online and we got tickets to the Borghese Museum, but we were so swamped with preparing to leave for Ethiopia, that we had no time to think about Rome. We intended to buy a guidebook, but never got around to it. I did make a phone call to a young woman from my church who had lived in Italy and she recommended a few “must see” places as well as the best gelato shop in Rome. In the end we decided that we would take in all we could in our short visit…and figure out what we had seen later.

On a Saturday morning at 8:00 AM, we landed in Rome and took the train into the city. We walked to our hotel and then spent the day sightseeing. We slept one night, saw more sites on Sunday, and then were back at the airport again. It was crazy, and fun, and we are so glad we did it. I’ll admit that I felt a little guilty not getting to Honeybee as quickly as possible, but once I realized that if we had flown Ethiopian Air the entire way (as we had in the past) we would have arrived at the same time, my guilt was assuaged.


One of my favorite moments was photographing this couple as they were being photographed for their wedding. If you look to the right of the photo, you will see their photographer and assistant. They were actually up on a high balcony and quite a distance away, but I had a nice, long lens on my camera.

And yes, the Trevi Fountain is just as beautiful as it appears in the movies.

~Lisa

Honeybee met her sister for the first time (in her memory) when her family came to say goodbye.

We left for Ethiopia last year in late July and although I had good intentions, I didn’t manage to write much about our trip at all. A week ago I had some serious panic when the external hard drive I had stored our photos on failed and I spent 48 hours thinking I may have lost them all. I hope to share photos and some observations over the next few weeks.

Adding four children to our family expanded us in other ways as well. We now have a deep connection with our children’s birthfamilies. We have been blessed to visit relatives of all four of our children. Eby and Little Man were adopted through an agency that not only discouraged contact with birthfamilies but they actually forbade it. In contrast, Adoption Advocates International, the agency we used for our girls’ adoptions, supported us and made significant efforts to help us meet their families.

The AAI staff in Ethiopia contacted Honeybee’s family who traveled by bus to Addis to meet us. As soon as we are able to return to Ethiopia, we hope to take Honeybee to visit her family in Jimma.

Honeybee’s grandmother told me that she was entrusting Honeybee to my care and she spontaneously and lovingly committed her to me, as you can see in the picture below.

Honeybee and her aunt

After learning Honeybee’s family history, we walked to a local pastry shop.


Honeybee’s grandmother gave us a great treasure. Tucked inside a pocket of folded newspapers were family photos, including one of Honeybee’s mother holding her and a wedding picture of her parents. There were also numerous small photos of uncles and aunts. Not long ago I printed copies of them for Honeybee. Next to her bed she keeps the photo of herself as a baby in her mother’s arms. They were both so beautiful.

(Note: In the attachment and trauma realm, we had a good day today!)

More soon.

~Lisa



We met Honeybee for the second time on July 28th. I’ve written before about the impression she made on us a little over a year earlier when we were getting Dimples. But still, this was a new experience and although there was a tiny bit of familiarity, we were nearly strangers. Yet at the same time, we were family. It all happened in a rush of hugs, photos, and a few tears from me. Then she was leading me by the hand into her room where she showed me her bed and gathered all that she was taking with her into a small, blue plastic bag; the momentos of eight years in her orphanage.

Two of the nannies at Honeybee’s orphanage

We took some pictures, met a a few of her friends and the nannies, then we were saying goodbyes and promising to be back in a few days. Once we were back at the Addis Kidan Guest House she eagerly went through her backpack and all of her new clothes. The clothes were greeted with an intake of breath and a whispered, “beautiful”. Russ and I glanced over Honeybee’s head, our eyes meeting, smiles on our faces, knowing what we were feeling without saying a word. She was our precious daughter and we had traveled around the world to get her. This was a “longing fulfilled” in our lives.

Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life. Proverbs 13:12

Thank you to everyone who emailed or commented about Honeybee’s tears. The last two days have been much better. She seems to be moving along with the flow of the family better and I’m not hearing, “Mom, nooooo!” as much. Two of her friends who speak very good English have also been home for two weeks and I asked their mom what the evening routine was at the orphanage. The girls said that the children were sent to their room in the evening, but they were not put to bed. They were allowed to play, talk, braid each other’s hair, or do what they liked. This helped me to understand why Honeybee was having such a hard time settling down each night, talking loudly, turning on the light, and basically keeping the other children awake. She is beginning to figure out that it doesn’t work that way here.

I’ve been trying to have a very defined bedtime to give her lots of clues that it is coming and to help her settle down. Last night each of the younger children chose a picture book to read, then I put them all in bed and each got to choose a song to sing. Honeybee chose Jesus Loves Me. All of that was followed by hugs, kisses, and prayers, and lo and behold, she stayed in bed and went to sleep with no tears.

There have been many interesting and humorous incidents that I keep intending to write down before I forget them. One happened the other night at bedtime. Over the weekend we had purchased a new mattress for Mimi, so hers went onto Ladybug’s bed, Ladybug’s went onto Dimples’ bed, and Dimples’ mattress was put on Eby’s bed. All of the beds were remade and I added a quilt to Honeybee’s bed which already had sheets and a fleece blanket. I noticed that she slept on top of her quilt with her fuzzy blanket over her for a couple of nights and I thought that, like some of my other kids, she figured it was easier than making her bed in the morning. Last night she pulled her fuzzy blanket over her and then said, “Mom, cold”. I said, “Well, get in your covers” and she looked quizzically at me. So I went to the top of her bed and pulled down the covers, she looked up in surprise, her eyes wide, then she smiled and said, “Thank you Mom” as she crawled in. I realized that she didn’t know there were sheets and a blanket under her new quilt! Fortunately it had been warm, but still it was one of those moments when I was struck by how much there is to learn.

Another interesting thing happened when she was cuddling on the sofa with me. I was reading something that had a photo of a white man on the page. She pointed at it and said, “ferenge” which is what Ethiopians sometimes call a white foreigner. I touched her arm and said, “Habesha” which is how many Ethiopians refer to themselves (rather than say Ethiopian). She then touched my arm and said, “Habesha”. I said, “Mommy Habesha?” and she replied, “Yes”. She then went on to describe her white siblings as ferenge and her Ethiopian siblings as habesha, but she continued to insist that Russ and I were habesha. I’m not quite sure what that meant, or if she was teasing me a little, but I’ll take it as a compliment.

Our first dinner at Metro Pizza

This Thursday we will drive to Seattle for medical appointments at Children’s Hospital. From there we’ll drive a little further to a special family camp where we will see many friends from our girls’ orphanage as well as friends we met last year. We are all looking forward to a special weekend!

~Lisa

While in Ethiopia, I carried a notebook in our backpack which went everywhere with us. In it I wrote lists of children to photograph, foot tracings and measurements of some of those children (after I met them), notes, phone numbers, our schedule (which was too complicated to keep in my head), questions I wanted to ask, etc. I also kept two lists: “Things I’m Glad I Packed” and “Things I Wish I had Packed”. I hope they will be useful to somebody who is getting ready to head to Ethiopia.

Things I’m Glad I Packed:

1. Keens – or in our case, “knock off” Keens from Payless Shoe Source. Unlike our last two trips to Ethiopia, this time it was the rainy season. The tough sole was perfect for the rough and muddy terrain and they dried quickly after rain showers. We bought them on a “Buy one get one half off” sale, so they were cheap. Lands End and other companies sell similar shoes.

2. Fleece Jackets – It was much colder in Ethiopia than we anticipated, so we wore our fleece jackets nearly all the time. Russ’s jacket has a vertical chest pocket with a zipper which was the perfect place to carry birr (Ethiopian money) when we were in more risky places such as the Merkato.

3. Nylon pants – Russ packed his nylon backpacking pants and was glad to have them since they dried very quickly. They also had a hidden zipper pocket within a pocket which was another safe place to carry money. Most of the time I wore cotton pants rather than jeans because they also dried quickly. We got used to having dried mud around the ankles of our pants.

4. Money belts – Because nearly everything is paid for with cash, including large fees to the American Embassy, we carried a significant sum of money on our bodies. Russ wore a waist belt and we both wore bags around our necks which enabled us to spread the money out over several places.

5. Travel Pillows – We forgot to pack the one travel pillow we own, but after our flight from Seattle to Atlanta, which we spent trying to get comfortable, we stopped in an airport shop and bought two neck pillows which we used on our other five flights. They were a perfect investment at two for $20.00 and helped us get much better sleep.

6. Shawl/Wrap – My friend, Heidi, is a seasoned traveler and she told me once that she always travels with a shawl of some sort. I took her advice and I used my shawl as a blanket on planes, to create a wrap skirt over my shorts in order to enter a church in Rome, to hide my camera in the market in Soddo and on the streets of Addis (Heidi, a professional photographer, showed me a nifty way to do this), and to wear as simply a shawl. It was perfect. I kept it rolled up in our backpack and used it nearly once a day.

7. Travel umbrellas – We took two and used them often.

8. CD player and CD’s of children’s music for Honeybee.

9. Antibacterial wipes and gel – it isn’t always possible to locate water (or soap) for washing before eating or after using the bathroom.

10. Food: beef jerky, almonds, protein bars, granola bars, chocolate. We ate everything we brought and wish we had carried more food with us.

11. Fleece blankets: We took a number of fleece blankets to give away as gifts, but it was so cold, that we hung onto two of them until our last day. We also packed a very soft fleece throw for Honeybee which she slept with every night and used on our flights home.

12. Ziploc bags: It is always amazing how useful these are for everything from packing leftover pizza to sorting various power cords, chargers, etc.

13. Backpack for Honeybee: I ordered a pink backpack with Honeybee’s name monogrammed on it from LLBean. She was thrilled, delighted, and enamored with her backpack which she unpacked and repacked countless times. On the trip home she carried her own blanket, small pillow, snacks, and activities in her backpack.
In family news, we are nearing the end of our first week home with Honeybee and she continues to do very well. She is eager to do whatever her siblings are doing, whether it is jumping on the trampoline or catching grasshoppers. On Tuesday she went to the pool for the first time and LOVED it. She kept a tight grip on Ladybug most of the time, but even went down the big slides.

On Wednesday we had our semiannual dental appointments and Honeybee went along. I was quite happy when they fit her into the schedule allowing her to have her first dental check-up and cleaning on her fourth day home. I’m sure most adoption books would not recommend it, but our hygienist was patient, gentle, and wonderful with her, assuring Honeybee that nothing was going to hurt. Best of all, her teeth are in great shape! Ten appointments down, only Sweet Pea and Mimi to go, and they can manage their appointments on their own.

In other happy family news, Sweet Pea had her medical school orientation on Friday where she was presented with her first stethoscope. Russ and I attended the stethoscope ceremony and then went to a picnic with her class and their families. Classes begin on Monday and she is looking forward to it.


To wrap up the week, Rusty played in a lacrosse tournament today. After three tough games in nearly 100 degree heat, his team won the championship! We are very proud of his hard work this season.

Rusty in white, a tough defensive player

Thanks for stopping by my blog.

~Lisa