Comments on: My Learning Curve: Good Help is Hard to Find http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/ Honest reflections on the challenges and blessings of love. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:28:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: A look at what therapy may be like « Gobbel Counseling & Adoption Services http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-3401 A look at what therapy may be like « Gobbel Counseling & Adoption Services Sun, 14 Feb 2010 17:42:51 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-3401 [...] Sometimes, it takes a while to find a good therapist.  An excellent therapist might not be the best therapist for you, your family, or your situation.  Don’t give up!  If the first therapist you meet with isn’t the right therapist for you, keep looking! [...] [...] Sometimes, it takes a while to find a good therapist.  An excellent therapist might not be the best therapist for you, your family, or your situation.  Don’t give up!  If the first therapist you meet with isn’t the right therapist for you, keep looking! [...]

]]> By: Grown In My Heart » Blog Archive » What Does Therapy Look Like? Part 1 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-3353 Grown In My Heart » Blog Archive » What Does Therapy Look Like? Part 1 Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:02:13 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-3353 [...] than we should have been.  I learned some important lessons in our quest, one of which is that good help is hard to find.  We had some false starts along the way, but after six months we found ourselves sitting with our [...] [...] than we should have been.  I learned some important lessons in our quest, one of which is that good help is hard to find.  We had some false starts along the way, but after six months we found ourselves sitting with our [...]

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-2185 Anonymous Sat, 08 Aug 2009 06:52:32 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-2185 Thanks for this very important information.<br /><br />Blessings,<br />Kathleen in California Thanks for this very important information.

Blessings,
Kathleen in California

]]> By: richlisad http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-2180 richlisad Thu, 06 Aug 2009 18:45:56 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-2180 Great info Lisa - Thanks. Our road has been bumpier than we thought it would be too. Great info Lisa – Thanks. Our road has been bumpier than we thought it would be too.

]]> By: Signe http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-2174 Signe Thu, 06 Aug 2009 00:58:42 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-2174 I think I will print this post and put it on my fridge, just in case. I am just thankful that you are only a couple of miles away! I think I will print this post and put it on my fridge, just in case. I am just thankful that you are only a couple of miles away!

]]> By: Ajay http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-2166 Ajay Wed, 05 Aug 2009 20:08:33 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-2166 Lisa, <br /><br />I'm new to following your blog...all blogs in general. I have a little one from Soddo and my husband and I are praying about an older sibling group. We have not yet started the process with an older sibling group as we want to prepare and educate ourselves more first. I've read a few of the books on these recommended list. Do you know of any good books relating specifically to an international adoption of older child sibling groups? What would be your "top read" for someone in my situation. <br /><br />I've been having difficulty in getting any responses back from other bloggers. I'd appreciate any time you could share so much. Lisa,

I'm new to following your blog…all blogs in general. I have a little one from Soddo and my husband and I are praying about an older sibling group. We have not yet started the process with an older sibling group as we want to prepare and educate ourselves more first. I've read a few of the books on these recommended list. Do you know of any good books relating specifically to an international adoption of older child sibling groups? What would be your "top read" for someone in my situation.

I've been having difficulty in getting any responses back from other bloggers. I'd appreciate any time you could share so much.

]]> By: Kathrin http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-2165 Kathrin Wed, 05 Aug 2009 16:30:38 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-2165 Lisa, I love the books the recommend on their web site. Thank you so much for sharing. Lisa, I love the books the recommend on their web site. Thank you so much for sharing.

]]> By: Mamita J http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-2164 Mamita J Wed, 05 Aug 2009 14:42:55 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-2164 Lisa,<br /><br />You are so right. It is so helpful to find good help, but it is hard to find. <br /><br />The best advice I got was at our International Adoption Clinic when Cupcake had been home less than two weeks. The psychologist there said, "She has been traumatized. DO NOT try to do this alone."<br /><br />It took a while to find the right people, but it is worth it to keep trying until you get the right match.<br /><br />Julie Lisa,

You are so right. It is so helpful to find good help, but it is hard to find.

The best advice I got was at our International Adoption Clinic when Cupcake had been home less than two weeks. The psychologist there said, "She has been traumatized. DO NOT try to do this alone."

It took a while to find the right people, but it is worth it to keep trying until you get the right match.

Julie

]]> By: Ericka http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-2163 Ericka Wed, 05 Aug 2009 12:49:41 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-2163 Fantastic info, thank you! Fantastic info, thank you!

]]> By: lorismusings http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/comment-page-1/#comment-2162 lorismusings Wed, 05 Aug 2009 07:00:21 +0000 http://www.onethankfulmom.com/1/my-learning-curve-good-help-is-hard-to-find/#comment-2162 What a great list of resources! That must represent a lot of time and effort on your part.<br /><br />I so appreciate your willingness to share struggles, ideas, and practical help. What a great list of resources! That must represent a lot of time and effort on your part.

I so appreciate your willingness to share struggles, ideas, and practical help.

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